The pleasure of being a woman...!

standing on the footpath of a not so busy road... clad in what most would agree to call as decently covered... two cars pass by blinking lights signaling...one preferred to blow a rhythmic horn....a young biker with his friend suddenly claims his love by saying 'i love u..will u marry me'....and glares from passer by MEN trying to notice something that might fancy them...

....proud to be Muslims are we not !!!...what a pity i live amongst those who cannot relate any woman with the word respect ...how they forget that they have wives, daughters and sisters...but o yes they'd give u the reason that their women don't come of out of the house or stand on the foot path for a rickshaw.... yes i live amongst male chauvinists who call them selves Muslims and cannot accept the fact that every woman outside the boundaries of her house is not an element for them to abuse (be it of any kind)....
...it saddens me to endure such scenarios...thank God i was born in a family where i am given the respect that i think a woman deserves... i am glad...i cant say more

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i know not everyone is alike...just quoting a personal experience...but i know not all men are alike :

my Day...!

Born in May
This very day
O' Glorious day
A Big Hurray!
Today! is Friday!
I humbly pray
That Happiness will stay
In so many shades of vary
And leads the way
For Joys in an array
No times to Fray
All the way
Enjoy your Day
For years to stay
Flowers in your Tray
So Heavy - that Hard to carry
Cool Breeze, Clouds, Rainy and Airy
Blessings and all - A Shower, a Spray
Without a trouble, No sign of Worry
With cute lil' pets - (not) all that Furry
What else I have to say
My wishes made of pre-fired clay
The colour is Grey .
from a rare-existent - peculiar quarry
For a nice Fairy
A page from my Diary
With shear respect, earnest wishes, my Very .
They all call her an amazing Buddy
She did her Study!
New Job - Next Month is the Payday!
She liked a lot, player # 3's Hairy
Born in May
This very day
What a Glorious day
For You, A Big Hurray!

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the most cutest wish of the day......:)....i just had to share it with the rest of my friends ....thank you everyone for remembering me...and Rizwan for going to such troubles of writing and rhyming.... bless you all

The Plasyic bag...!

i stood with my back to the world,
the wind making chaos of my hair
the light piercing me with its rays
i stand and stare at my shadow....
i hear the plastic cursing the wind yet flowing to places unknown
i merge in the songs of the trees dancing with the breeze..
i see my silhouette pushed by the wind
i stare at my shadow but its blank
i feel the dust on my bare arms
i notice how the wind dosent let me look up
i touch my shadow and its outline
and stop at the marking of my heart
i hold it with both my hands and i feel...
i see the trees dancing and making love
i capture the dust patterns in my mind before they disperse
i see the plastic bag again this time flowing like an unkempt soul
one drop on the forehead..the other on the hand and a third on the eye...
i smell the most refreshing fragrance of the wet earth...i smell the fears inside
an indication to let go ..to see what is shown and to explore
an aura encapsulates me ..i am winded around by the soft harsh breeze ...
i stand with my back to the world and i stare at my shadow
..and it dosent stare back.....

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looks like its finally gona rain...its about time...i feel very dry inside .... plus it was a sand storm and now i need a shower :) so brb ;)

my Birthday

Is your birthday day 18 of the month?

Your Life

At first glance, people think you are quiet type of person. Actually you are cheerful, but conditionally. You will show your joyful character only in good mood. One the other hand, when you are moody, no one would dare to be around. Because of your emotion fluctuation and frank character, some find you hard to be around.

Your Love

You hardly show your feeling towards opposite sex no matter how much you like him/her. Your partner also has similar character so your love affairs often take quite a while to flourish. Time tells it all. Your sincerity makes you very attractive.

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i have to say it is some what correct :)...thanks Bro for sharing ;)

Going down...!

i want to cry...i want tears to flow non stop....i want to cry...i have a heavy heart...i cant compose words to let out my pain...its strangling my throat...my brain feels dead...i am loosing the battle to reason... how hard it is to bear the thought of what lies ahead might not be waht we want...im loosing the little trust i had in the few people i know or knew...im drifting away... far deep within...i have had phases before but this time it seems like a long slow process that might last for longer if not forever... i have not lost faith...i still believe that everything that happens happens for a reason... and that my Lord knows whats better for me.... still a weakling as i am... i want to cry... but the tears reuse to fall... stubborn as i am...i want to cry

My first day...!

ok so i was escorted by a marching band on the front steps of the office...but...i didn't go in right away..why?? because i was ten minutes early "_ ....lol...so i waited in the car ..went to buy a bottle of water ..came back ..and then went in finally ...to be received by no one...but thank God people were moving about...i waited for someone to appear or ask...a human did ask why i was there and then went away.. then finally the receptionist showed up called someone about me then chatted with me a while...
...so this client service guy come up introduces himself and then takes me upstairs to introduce the creative team The names of whom i have forgotten of course (as i am bad with names)...and all the basic hello hi followed... and so i sit down on my desk which is not comfortable but i will live...and the chair which need to be pushed up every 2 hrs or so is comfortable ... so nothing drastic happens apart from a general meeting with the gm and another team member ...she then takes me to the other departments that Adil missed out (again forgetting the finance and account..which i didn't even remind her that id like to see because i didn't ;))...
..she then wasted allot of her time with me and explained how things work and what campaigns are going on an yada yada and all what i ll be doing etc... and then asks me to chill since the coming days were very hectic....
...me waiting for some action didn't say anything because i thought i should better shut up on the first day ;)...not knowing of course what the coming days would be like...and so my journey begins
...till lunch pure boredom since i had nothing to do...chatted with an old colleague who had been working here for a yr now...though we were not on very friendly terms ever but still he was polite enough to come over and as if i needed anything and how things were en that I've lost weight :D :D...
...my neighbor will probably get tired of me soon since he is the one i am teamed up with and i asked him (though i don't totally agree) but many questions of how things worked around here and what software en technical stuff (nothing personal =P) ...
...lunch time was hard to pass... the bell boy came over to ask if i wanted anything and i didn't feel like interrogating him on what is available and what not so i told him i don't need anything...and so i remained empty stomach all day :(...the cappuccino did wonders warna pata nai kya hota ;).... so after lunch finally Adil thought i was miserable enough so he gave me a little work to do and i was all happy....:D...so i started working and at 5:30pm exact ;)...i left my chair...a benefit some say only the newbie can afford and that too for the few starting days...:)...lets see now what the future holds for me...looking forward for better experiences...and some lunch in the lunch time ;)...
...and oh yea how could i forget...the ladies wash room .lolzzz....its soooooooooooooooo pink...yuck....all mushy and stupid girlie really...and you have to really push the door to lock it...i thought i had locked my self in and will now face embarrassment on my very first day until i realized i was turning the nob in the wrong direction ...*blushes*...
...and yea not a single good looking soul so far ..ppppffffftttt...i always have bad luck when it comes to having a good looking company around ;)...

....my first day at work :)